| Location | Belfast |
| Age | 15 years |
| Date of Birth | 5/1989 |
| Date of Death | 3/2005 |
| Visitors | 4,275 since 14/01/2006 |
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If i had 1 wish do u know wat it would be ? my wish would be to have my son here with me,my heart has been broken in so many ways, i still cant believe that my son is away. At only 15 and a heart of gold i thought god would have allowed him to grow grey and old. But that was not to happen as god had plans of his own, he took sweet baby James and brought him home.I hope god has given you the golden crown youve won,for my heart is broken in losing you son. Your in my heart and in my soul and you shall remain there until im grey and old. Love and miss you loads son R.I.P , forever young ..Love mum xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
wednesday 2nd march 2005..the day my whole world fell apart.
James was my eldest son and losing him to suicide has devastated me my partner and his other brothers. i was pregnant at the time of his death so unfortunatly he wasnt here to see the birth of his baby sister who we called 'jaime' after him. to lose a child to natural causes is heartbreaking but to lose a child to suicide is the most awful feeling a mother will ever have, i would not wish it on anyone. i know someday i will see my son again till then his memory lives on..xxxxx miss you always love mum.
"Remember Me"
(song by Deanna Edwards)
Remember me whenever you see a sunrise,
Remember me whenever you see a star,
Remember me whenever you see a rainbow
Or woods in autumn colors from afar.
Remember me whenever you see the roses
Or seagulls sailing high in a sky of blue.
Remember me whenever you see waves
Shining in the sun.
And remember, I'll be remembering you!
Remember me whenever you see a teardrop,
Or meadows still wet with the morning dew.
Remember me whenever you feel love
Growing in your heart.
And remember, I'll be remembering you
my wonderful son..xxx
ON THE DAY THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN YOUR 21st BIRTHDAY
Of all the precious things in life
However great or small
To have had you as our Son
Was the greatest gift of all
We remember other birthdays
And you just larking about
Your laugh, your smile, your energy
It never would wear out
And now its here without you
Emptiness fills our hearts
No matter the distance between
Heaven and earth we will never be apart
i miss you so much smiler..love always mum..xxxxx
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If I knew it would be the last time
that Id see you fall asleep,
I would tuck you in more tightly
and pray the Lord, your soul to keep.
If I knew it would be the last time
that I see you walk out the door,
I would give you a hug and kiss
and call you back for one more.
If I knew it would be the last time
Id hear your voice lifted up in praise,
I would videotape each action and word,
so I could play them back day after day.
If I knew it would be the last time,
I would spare an extra minute or two
to stop and say I love you,
instead of assuming you would know I do.
If I knew it would be the last time
I would be there to share your day,
Well Im sure youll have so many more,
so I can let just this one slip away.
For surely theres always tomorrow
to make up for an oversight,
and we always get a second chance
to make everything right.
There will always be another day
to say I love you,
and certainly theres another chance
to say our Anything I can dos?
But just in case I might be wrong,
and today is all I get,
Id like to say how much I love you
and I hope we never forget,
tomorrow is not promised to anyone,
young or old alike.
And today may be the last chance you get
to hold your loved one tight.
So if youre waiting for tomorrow,
why not do it today?
For if tomorrow never comes,
youll surely regret the day
that you didnt take that extra time
for a smile, a hug, or a kiss,
and you were too busy to grant someone,
what turned out to be their one last wish.
So hold your loved ones close today,
whisper in their ear,
tell them how much you love them
and that youll always hold them dear.
Take time to say Im sorry,
please forgive me,thank you, or its okay.
And if tomorrow never comes,
youll have no regrets about today.
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❤ The next time I meet you ❤
❤ Will be at Heavens door ❤
❤ You'll be there to meet me ❤
❤ And I will cry no more ❤
❤ I'll put my arms around you ❤
❤ And kiss your lovely face ❤
❤ And then this broken heart of mine ❤
❤ Will fall back into place ❤
love you so much son..xxx
Footprints in the Sand
One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord.
Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky.
In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand.
Sometimes there were two sets of footprints,
other times there were one set of footprints.
This bothered me because I noticed
that during the low periods of my life,
when I was suffering from
anguish, sorrow or defeat,
I could see only one set of footprints.
So I said to the Lord,
"You promised me Lord,
that if I followed you,
you would walk with me always.
But I have noticed that during
the most trying periods of my life
there have only been one
set of footprints in the sand.
Why, when I needed you most,
you have not been there for me?"
The Lord replied,
"The times when you have
seen only one set of footprints in the sand,
is when I carried you."
god only tke the best
James Stanforth... god only takes the best luv..the good died young wel so then say.. and so he did when he took u r.i.p luv..
to my darling son who i miss so much..love mum..xx
No one knew the torment,
that you were going through;
We only kept on seeing
What we really wanted to.
We saw the outward smile,
but not your inner pain;
We never really dreamt,
That you would never smile again.
Forgive us if we failed to see,
What we could do to aid;
Or if we failed to comprehend,
How much you were afraid.
We pray your mental anguish,
Will now forever cease;
And that your deep anxieties,
Will be replaced by peace.
We know your pain invaded,
Every single thought you had;
It made you cry internally,
And deeply, deeply sad.
But we in turn remember,
The good times, not the bad;
We remember when you smiled at us,
And not when you were sad.
So when we think about your life,
We won't dwell upon its close;
We'll remember all the good times,
And forget about life's blows.
We'll remember all the happiness,
The joy and not the tears;
The assurance and the confidence,
And not irrational fears.
Our lives have all been better,
Because you have been there;
So now we leave your memory,
In God's all-loving care.
Read at Kierans Funeral
Miss Me But Let Me Go
When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me,
I want no tears in a gloom-filled room,
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little – But not for long
And not with your head bowed low,
Remember the love that we once shared,
Miss me – But let me go.
For this is a journey we all must take,
And each must go alone,
It’s all a part of the Master’s plan
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick of heart
Go to your friends that we know,
And bury your sorrows in doing good works,
Miss me – But let me go.
Perhaps if we could see the splendour of the land
To which our loved ones are called from you and me,
We’d understand
Perhaps if we could hear the welcome they receive
From old familiar voices all so dear
We would not grieve.
Perhaps if we could know the reason why they went
We’d smile and wipe away the tears that flow
We’d wait content
Miss me – But let me go
Candles in the Night
Candles flame in darkness,
Flicker, steadily glow,
Bringing light from shadows
And help to soothe me so.
My son, like the candles,
Gave my life true light,
I use the candle's beacon
To connect us in the night.
As I light the candles,
My wish and my request
Is that he'll see my signal
And know my love's expressed.
As his light joins my lights,
Our worlds touch and flame.
As I snuff out the candles,
I softly say his name.
By Genesse Bourdeau Gentry
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